Prevention


 * Always tell an adult.**
 * Make sure that you kids feel comfortable enough to talk to you about anything and anyone.
 * As a prent your voice will always be heard in the school


 * Tell your kids to stay in a group.**
 * Kids who bully like to pick on kids who are by themselves a lot– it's easier and they're more likely to get away with their bad behavior.
 * If they spend more time with other kids, they may not be an easy "target" and they'll have others around to help them if they get into a difficult situation!
 * If it feels safe, try to stand up to the person who is bullying you.**
 * If the person who is bullying you thinks you won't do anything about it, they are more likely to keep picking on you. This doesn't mean you should fight back or bully them back. Instead, tell the person bullying you that you don't like it and that they should stop! Keep it simple. You might just say, "Cut it out, Miranda!", and then walk away. If possible, try to talk to them in a calm voice. Kids who bully often like to see that they can make you upset. If you're afraid to talk to the person who is bullying you by yourself, then you might want to ask someone else to be there with you. Kids who bully are more likely to listen, and less likely to bully you, when you're with someone and not alone. If you're not comfortable standing up to someone who has bullied you, that's definitely OK! Just walk away. But be sure to tell an adult.
 * If you are being bullied online, don't reply.**
 * This may actually make the bullying worse. Instead, be sure to tell a family member or another adult you trust. If possible, block any more communications from this person. (For example, it might be a good idea only to accept messages from people you know.) Save evidence of the bullying. If you get a nasty e-mail, print it out or save it so that you can show it to an adult.
 * Join clubs or take part in activities where you'll meet other kids.**
 * Sometimes, it can help to join clubs or take part in activities that interest you. Think about joining a sports team, taking an art class, or joining a scouting group, for example. You can meet other kids who share your interests and you might make some good friends!